Sunday, July 31, 2011
Saturday, July 30, 2011
Moving Heavy Stuff
Well, well, well. D's lease ends at the end of August and he got his keys to the new pad yesterday. Spare room, deck, view, downtown, big kitchen, AWESOME location. Even thought we don't live together and I am not moving into this condo, this is still very exciting for me because I spend a lot of time at his place. So obviously, I was very excited to help him move...
So Friday Night.... Get off work, go for a run and head over to help unload the heavy stuff aka bed, couch, coffee table, desk, TV stand, TV. Piece of cake. I worked out every day this last week. I was ready ;)
This is how I envisioned us carrying stuff into the entry way. UMMMM. WHO ARE THESE PEOPLE? This is NOT real life. :)
OH. MY. FRICKIN. GOSH. This is maaaaaaaybe how our first trip looked for the first 15 seconds. Maybe. Probably not. I still haven't gotten used to the fact that I should always carry around my camera. I am now thanking God for not having documentation of this.
We took the bed first. Not my fault my arms aren't long enough to hold a queen size bed! But apparently that is my fault? After dropping it, ripping the mattress pad and dragging it through some leaves, we were barely speaking to each other. Also, I so graciously learned that I do not know "mover's lingo". When someone is screaming at you, "TUCK THE CORNER, TUCK THE CORNER?" what would you do? Apparently 'tuck the corner' means straighten out...? and hooooow am I suppose to know that?
The coffee table? He smacked the edge into my shin on accident?. I slammed the door on his face on purpose.
Couch? He decided it would be "better" if I just "guarded" the TV in the back of the truck while he lugged the couch inside? Brilliant idea to me. Not.
TV? We each carried an edge, but the cord was on my side. If I wasn't walking fast enough the cord would get stuck in the door when it shut. My lovely man informed me, "I know I am being mean, but I don't feel like you are performing to your potential..."????? Ummmmm. Sorry I can't sprint while carrying a HUGE TV. ugh.
By this time, we were speaking one word sentences to each other, COVERED in sweat, starving and had a HUGE mess in the condo. No longer was it fun.
It was the most un-glamorous, un-romantic,un -FUN thing I could EVER imagine doing.
I always envisioned moving in an organized, timely efficient manner.
After I had unzipped a DUFFEL bag full of KITCHEN knives and almost cut my fingers off, Drew days, 'Oh yeah, be careful! That bag is full of knives!' Seriously dude? KNIVES in a duffel bag? Am I dating a serial killer? I was beginning to doubt our future at this point. I swear to God I was.
He was mad it took too long so all the restaurants he wanted to do to were closed. He says I should have told him I couldn't help as much as I thought carrying heavy stuff and we could have gotten other people to help.
I was mad that we didn't have music playing, Chinese takeout, beers open and unpacking like it was done in the movies.
We both got fooled by our expectations. :)
FIVE THINGS I LEARNED DURING OUR NIGHT OF MOVING:
1.) What is important to him... While everything else was just randomly thrown in boxes or duffel bags, his most important possessions were kept close. I actually hit his leg and noticed something hard. He had been carrying his TV remotes in his cargo shorts pockets all night... Priorities, right? ;)
2.) His XBOX 360Live "Gamer-ID tag"... Ya know, the username they use when they play video games against other real life people? His name? HylaFyler. When I asked what it meant, he told me that he wanted to have a username after some cool animals. All taken. Then. He tapped into his college biology degree background and remembered the official scientific name for a tree frog. Hyla. Flya because it is a jumping treefrog. HyLa.Flya. hahahaha. I was dying of laughter. Not only is my baby good at video games, he is nerdy too :)
3.) When things aren't going my way: I get whiny.
4. When things don't go his way, he gets short and snippy :)
5.) Cleaning supplies are important. Kleenex tissues with lotion aren't good for dusting. They get everything lotion-ey.
So we moved everything in, and then we started putting stuff away and organizing. Before I even knew it, I was laughing at something he was saying, and he was telling me what I great idea it was to put the dishes in the cabinet by the sink, instead of by the stove. I couldn't even remember why half an hour ago I literally was ready to sneak out and walk home!
Once we both realized that it was FINE that things weren't going how we were expecting them to go, things were still getting done. I didn't HAVE to be the strongest girl he ever met, and he didn't HAVE to be the the best packer I know.
So instead of Chinese food and beer on the patio for dinner, we had Cheetoh Puffs and a sandwich on the floor around midnight.
And it was one of the most fun times we have ever had together ;) (that being saiiiid... if we ever have to move in the future when we have acquired a LOT of stuff, I think we will splurge for professional movers. That, or a marriage counselor :)
Friday, July 29, 2011
Thursday, July 28, 2011
Tuesday, July 26, 2011
Mountain Biking, Anyone?
ALLLLL weekend these bikers were EVERYWHERE. At the restaurants all sweaty and dirty enjoying a cold beer and some burgers. Rinsing off their MUDDY bikes wherever there was a hose. Walking their bikes back to the hotels, enough mud on their face to seriously need like 6 showers.
~Erma Bombeck
3 Things Tuesday
Ok this is sooooo cool and I wish I could find a better picture but you get the point. It's a watch. and the middle says "IT'S and then instead of the numbers it says "NOW" all around the face of the watch. Sooo. When someone asks you what time it is or you glance down?
The time? It's Now.
This concept was invented by a monk who hired another monk from LA to design it for him because he believed in savoring every moment. So awesome. Such a great way to look at things. Easier said than done, I will be the first to admit.
3.) TREEHOUSE!
Monday, July 25, 2011
Sprinkles
Have a Pampered Chef Spritz cookie gun that you only bring out at Christmas to make cute little Spritz cookies but takes up precious room in your kitchen the other 360 days of the year? Well. Is it your lucky Monday or what?
Y'all know those cookies. So good. but the Christmas wreaths and snowflake cookies are always waaaay too small, and kinda hard? My precious auntie makes her Spritz cookies a little bit bigger, sandwiches some frosting between them and adds sprinkles. Delicious. Cute. and not Christmasy :) The picture doesn't do them justice. Put that Spritz cookie gun to use this summer!!!!!
I also just realized that after my little spiel about starting WeightWatchers my first post is about cookies and frosting? Yeah. I am one of those people. When I am trying to eat healthy I bake up a storm and try to shove it down other people's throats. I say it is a workout for my will-power :) My dad thinks it is just plain weird and mean. :)
Sunday, July 24, 2011
Olympic Rings
3.) On the way up, they had these signs giving directions. In English and then in some other language. We all had absolutely NO idea what language it is, how you pronounce it or who could read it? Like seriously? Any ideas? skkcmksdfkjkldjakljdflaskdf?
Thursday, July 21, 2011
SERIOUSLY? Thursday
- Seriously. OKAY. I love the Kardashian's just as much as the next girl. Wish I could be in their family. Klindsay? Sounds good to me. That being saiiiid, the 20.5 carot engagement diamond ring Kim got from Kris. IN THE INSIDE IT SAYS "K HEARTS K". So you spend money on HUGE rock and then can't get more creative than "K HEARTS K"??? Seriously?
- Seriously. The homeless man that is always on the corner when I get off the freeway to go to work now pan-handles with like 6 KITTENS! He sits with his sign, and has a cardboard box full of kittens. Cute. Buuuut. Right when it begins to pull of my heart strings and I am tempted to pull over and give him some money for cat food, I get mad. You can't just use cute little kitties to get money! Seriously?
- Seriously. I ALMOST ate a whole can of Pringles in one sitting the other day. I felt so bllaaahh with that I tortured myself with like an hour run the next morning at 7:30AM. A WHOLE can of Pringles. Seriously?
- Seriously. Did you know that people who regularly floss live an average of SIX YEARS longer than those who don't. Seriously?
Link up and play along! What made you go "Seriously" this week????
Wednesday, July 20, 2011
Tuesday, July 19, 2011
Three Things Tuesday
Monday, July 18, 2011
The Good, The Bad
So BEFORE we went out to dinner, I had stopped over at my aunt's house and my little cousins had BEGGED to play with my camera. I let them take it outside while I chit-chatted. When it was time to go, I gave them hugs and grabbed the camera. I asked where they went to take pictures and they replied, "No where! Just around here." Booooring, I thought. I was probably just gonna delete them from the camera so I wouldn't have to deal with stupid pictures of the grass and their feet taking up room on the computer.
But of course... While I was uploading the pics from our depressing little journey to the boardwalk, I realized I had not yet deleted little J's pictures, and they were going on my computer. I took a quick glance and was surprised. (Our little photographer is only 6!!!!)
Just in the perimeters of her little backyard, she had managed to capture more beauty and color and cheerfulness than I had at the boardwalk. Sometimes it's the simple things that are so beautiful, and that we just take for granted. Like a freakin' shadow? That's the cutest little picture ever, and yet we overlook the simplicities where a 6-year-old mind finds beauty.
Just ANOTHER reminder how there is indeed good in every day (a great TV show, a LONNGGG movie, a pretty pink flower, a baby girl's shadow) amongst the not-so-great. (the end of a great TV series, the end of a great movie series, a rainy JULY day, 2 bodiless figures..?)
Sunday, July 17, 2011
Sorry, Mama :)
It had been years at least.
Someone is turning 50 today...
I didn't want to be mean and do the whole black balloons, "Over the Hill" thing, but I did want to do something that at least acknowledged hitting this big milestone.
I decided to make cookies with BLACK M &M's :) hehehe. Am I clever, or what?
The first batch? I sent the timer for 9 hours instead of 9 minutes.
They were BURNT to say the least. (This picture makes them look somewhat edible. They were not. Let me tell ya that)
Saturday, July 16, 2011
Mr. Relay
A very cheerful contestant from this year and me. Sophomore year of high school at Homecoming. (WITH A DATE WHO COULD DRIVE BY THE WAY.Yep,going for the older boys.) SAME DRESS.
Who wore it best? WHY, OH WHY DID YOU GUYS LET ME GO OUT WITH MY HAIR LITERALLY IN A BEE HIVE? Ugh. He wins. Just based on hair. And that chest that definitely fills out with dress ;)
Friday, July 15, 2011
Please Forgive Me, Debbie
Thursday, July 14, 2011
Happpppy
(No, her name is not Annie, but when I was little, I pronounced AunTie like AnNie and it stuck. So now that's what we all call her. :)
One of the best things this pretty little lady has taught me? Life is HARD, but we just gotta keep on, keepin' on.
Like she always says, "Yeah, the grass may be greener on the other side, but you still have to mow it."
Love it. Love her. Loving that it's almost Friday. Your weekend homework? Be grateful for what you have this weekend :) I am grateful for you, Annie :)
Tuesday, July 12, 2011
Saturday Night
While I know horrific, terrible things are happening all the time, it seems like lately there have been soooo many horrible, unfair, awful things in the news and newspaper and it is just making my heart hurt.
When it rains it pours? I dunno, but it sure seems like that.
On Saturday night my sister's boyfriend and his family were in Lake Chelan (where my boyfriend is from) and T and his little brother were doing some late night fishing.
They heard yelling nearby, and quickly found out that a 27-year old had gone for a late night swim, and hadn't come up. His friends were yelling for help.
T and his bro (fully clothed in sweatshirts and shoes and everything) quickly ditched their shoes and jumped in.
T dove 15 feet down and saw a white light type thing, that he thought could have been a reflection. He went down again, bringing up this guy. He was white, eyes rolled back and had no pulse.
T's brother who had just learned CPR in his health class, started doing compressions and breathing until the paramedics came. While the CPR was being done, they were praying for the man to start breathing again. He was helicoptered to a hospital where he was in a coma.
Just today I saw on T's facebook that the man is recovering and will soon be removed from the machine that is helping him breath!!!!!! HOW AWESOME IS THAT???????????
I mean, I like to think that T's reaction to just dive right in would be mine too, but I really don't know what I would do in that type of situation. I am so proud of those boys and their automatic reaction without even questioning if they would be "heroes".
So while I STILL feel like crying at all the pain and suffering in the world, I also know how GREAT our God is and he is just so much bigger than all my tears and sadness. :)
Monday, July 11, 2011
10,000 hours
Everyone meet Laura Van Dernoot Lipsky. She is amazing.
She talked about finding contentment in life and how to be happy even when we see such horrible, traumatic things in our lives. But it wasn't like the "la di di, be happy" typical speech. She was real. Understanding. Knows what's like.
One of my favorite things she talked about?
10,000 Hours to Expertise
umm what?
There is a theory that suggests that after 10,000 hours of practice in anything, one is considered an "expert" in that topic.
Play your piano for 10,000 hours? Move over, Ray Charles.
Spend 10,000 hours working on perfecting your buttercream frosting recipe? Join a gym, and move over Martha Stewart.
I bet you get the point. :) So. Laura was talking about how when we gossip and do things we KNOW we shouldn't be doing, all that time is adding up towards our 10,000 hours.
For some reason this really hit me. Do I really want to be an expert in face-book stalking? Or gossip-magazine reading? Or for that matter, WORRYING?
An hour here, an hour there, a couple more minutes on the Internet may not seem like a biggie. But over the course of a week, a month, a year? How close to being an expert are you?
...Cuz I think Mark Zuckerburg is getting a litttttle nervous about my facebooking skills. ;)
Sunday, July 10, 2011
Saturday, July 9, 2011
The Time They Thought I had A.D.D.
I moved back and started going to WWU, and I called up the good ole doc, and got a referral to see a psychiatrist to see just what was going on in my poor little brain.
Now, I am not a pet person especially, but I mean, dogs are cute and fine.
BUT. maybe if you are working with people who obviously have a lot of angst and anxiety in their lives, you could not assume they are all dog people, too.
Perhaps I should have asked the receptionist if the psychiatrist I was visiting would bring a dog into her practice? Was it my bad? Do most people ask this? Hm. I had no idea. :)
So I go to the appointment and am greeted by her dog. In the office building. Whatev. I can handle it :) I pet it, say the obligatory "oohh, what a good puppy you have." Blah, blah, blah.
The appointment goes on, we do whatever a doctor does during the initial appointment and we come to the conclusion I might have ADD.
Me? I was speechless. I was honor roll all high school, got a scholarship, LOVED school, took AP classes... pretty much a nerd when it came to school. I got a 4.0 freshman year of college and I was ADD? Umm... okay?
After more eduction, I learned that my problem with attention could be responsible for why I always felt anxious. Interesting? I think so. Me? A college girl who almost joined a sorority and had a boyfriend and got a 4.0 was ADD?
Got my prescription for adderall, did my followup appointments and went on my merry little way.
I think the only thing my adderall did for me was that I could AMAZE my college roommates by being able to sit in the middle of the living room with like 7 other people all talking and laughing and watching TV and listening to music and COMPLETELY zone it all out and type away furiously on my laptop doing homework. Like seriously, it was amazing. :)
So I kept taking the meds and had to tell cute older college boys that 'no' they could not buy some of my adderall off me when finals came around.
The only problem with this appetite suppressing, focus-enhancing pills? I WAS STILL SOO ANXIOUS.
Come to find out, I got a new doctor who told me that for people who in fact ARE NOT A.D.D., these meds MAKE THE PROBLEM WORSE!
So this whole time? This adderall was making me MORE and MORE anxious.
Did I talk to my old psychiatrist about this? Nope. Couldn't. Found out she closed her practice and got her license revoked because she was drinking on the job. Reassuring? Not so much.
Moral of the story? Unless you are an animal lover and perhaps request a doctor who brings pets to your appointments, if you see a dog in the 10 foot by 10 foot office on your first day, make up an excuse and get outta there :)
Friday, July 8, 2011
Thursday, July 7, 2011
I Love Magnets
Tried it out for a couple days, and realized it was actually pretty darn handy :) I was thinking about how nice it would be if I didn't have to open my dresser drawer for ANYTHING in the morning.
Wednesday, July 6, 2011
Tuesday, July 5, 2011
Three Things Tuesday
2.) SNAKE FIRECRACKERS
3.) SOMEONE'S ENGAGED!
Look at that surprised face and the BEAUTIFULLLLL ring ;) One of my besties is getting married!!!! Woohooo for Jen and Travis! :)
Monday, July 4, 2011
Saturday, July 2, 2011
Manual Labor
M & M's
I also love baking. Especially cookies.
Sooo. One of my fav things to do is bake M & M cookies with holiday themes. You know how the stores sell the packs? Red and green for Christmas. Pinks and Whites for Valentines Day, yadda, yadda.
I even branch out sometimes and get a little creative if I do say so myself.
Pick out the red's and blue's... Wait... There is no white M & M's. Add white chocolate chips!
This time I went with the basic assorted Holiday pack.
I've made some for football season where I pick out all the blues and greens for Seahawk colors, red and yellows for the San Fran 49er's. You get the picture. While they are fun and cute, it is not fun to pick through the colors. Plus you need like 5 bags to get enough of the colors you need.
Where am I going with this? My lovely sister had the GENIUS idea of seeing if the Sweet Factory (a specialty candy store in malls around the Pacific Northwest) sold the customizable M & M colors. While they didn't have the ones where you could write messages or print pictures, they had WAYYY more colors of M & M's and they were organized by color!
We bought purple and yellow and she baked up some cute cookies to celebrate Tyson's graduation from UW and his younger brother's acceptance for fall!
Sunday, July 31, 2011
Saturday, July 30, 2011
Moving Heavy Stuff
Well, well, well. D's lease ends at the end of August and he got his keys to the new pad yesterday. Spare room, deck, view, downtown, big kitchen, AWESOME location. Even thought we don't live together and I am not moving into this condo, this is still very exciting for me because I spend a lot of time at his place. So obviously, I was very excited to help him move...
So Friday Night.... Get off work, go for a run and head over to help unload the heavy stuff aka bed, couch, coffee table, desk, TV stand, TV. Piece of cake. I worked out every day this last week. I was ready ;)
This is how I envisioned us carrying stuff into the entry way. UMMMM. WHO ARE THESE PEOPLE? This is NOT real life. :)
OH. MY. FRICKIN. GOSH. This is maaaaaaaybe how our first trip looked for the first 15 seconds. Maybe. Probably not. I still haven't gotten used to the fact that I should always carry around my camera. I am now thanking God for not having documentation of this.
We took the bed first. Not my fault my arms aren't long enough to hold a queen size bed! But apparently that is my fault? After dropping it, ripping the mattress pad and dragging it through some leaves, we were barely speaking to each other. Also, I so graciously learned that I do not know "mover's lingo". When someone is screaming at you, "TUCK THE CORNER, TUCK THE CORNER?" what would you do? Apparently 'tuck the corner' means straighten out...? and hooooow am I suppose to know that?
The coffee table? He smacked the edge into my shin on accident?. I slammed the door on his face on purpose.
Couch? He decided it would be "better" if I just "guarded" the TV in the back of the truck while he lugged the couch inside? Brilliant idea to me. Not.
TV? We each carried an edge, but the cord was on my side. If I wasn't walking fast enough the cord would get stuck in the door when it shut. My lovely man informed me, "I know I am being mean, but I don't feel like you are performing to your potential..."????? Ummmmm. Sorry I can't sprint while carrying a HUGE TV. ugh.
By this time, we were speaking one word sentences to each other, COVERED in sweat, starving and had a HUGE mess in the condo. No longer was it fun.
It was the most un-glamorous, un-romantic,un -FUN thing I could EVER imagine doing.
I always envisioned moving in an organized, timely efficient manner.
After I had unzipped a DUFFEL bag full of KITCHEN knives and almost cut my fingers off, Drew days, 'Oh yeah, be careful! That bag is full of knives!' Seriously dude? KNIVES in a duffel bag? Am I dating a serial killer? I was beginning to doubt our future at this point. I swear to God I was.
He was mad it took too long so all the restaurants he wanted to do to were closed. He says I should have told him I couldn't help as much as I thought carrying heavy stuff and we could have gotten other people to help.
I was mad that we didn't have music playing, Chinese takeout, beers open and unpacking like it was done in the movies.
We both got fooled by our expectations. :)
FIVE THINGS I LEARNED DURING OUR NIGHT OF MOVING:
1.) What is important to him... While everything else was just randomly thrown in boxes or duffel bags, his most important possessions were kept close. I actually hit his leg and noticed something hard. He had been carrying his TV remotes in his cargo shorts pockets all night... Priorities, right? ;)
2.) His XBOX 360Live "Gamer-ID tag"... Ya know, the username they use when they play video games against other real life people? His name? HylaFyler. When I asked what it meant, he told me that he wanted to have a username after some cool animals. All taken. Then. He tapped into his college biology degree background and remembered the official scientific name for a tree frog. Hyla. Flya because it is a jumping treefrog. HyLa.Flya. hahahaha. I was dying of laughter. Not only is my baby good at video games, he is nerdy too :)
3.) When things aren't going my way: I get whiny.
4. When things don't go his way, he gets short and snippy :)
5.) Cleaning supplies are important. Kleenex tissues with lotion aren't good for dusting. They get everything lotion-ey.
So we moved everything in, and then we started putting stuff away and organizing. Before I even knew it, I was laughing at something he was saying, and he was telling me what I great idea it was to put the dishes in the cabinet by the sink, instead of by the stove. I couldn't even remember why half an hour ago I literally was ready to sneak out and walk home!
Once we both realized that it was FINE that things weren't going how we were expecting them to go, things were still getting done. I didn't HAVE to be the strongest girl he ever met, and he didn't HAVE to be the the best packer I know.
So instead of Chinese food and beer on the patio for dinner, we had Cheetoh Puffs and a sandwich on the floor around midnight.
And it was one of the most fun times we have ever had together ;) (that being saiiiid... if we ever have to move in the future when we have acquired a LOT of stuff, I think we will splurge for professional movers. That, or a marriage counselor :)
Friday, July 29, 2011
Thursday, July 28, 2011
Tuesday, July 26, 2011
Mountain Biking, Anyone?
ALLLLL weekend these bikers were EVERYWHERE. At the restaurants all sweaty and dirty enjoying a cold beer and some burgers. Rinsing off their MUDDY bikes wherever there was a hose. Walking their bikes back to the hotels, enough mud on their face to seriously need like 6 showers.
~Erma Bombeck
3 Things Tuesday
Ok this is sooooo cool and I wish I could find a better picture but you get the point. It's a watch. and the middle says "IT'S and then instead of the numbers it says "NOW" all around the face of the watch. Sooo. When someone asks you what time it is or you glance down?
The time? It's Now.
This concept was invented by a monk who hired another monk from LA to design it for him because he believed in savoring every moment. So awesome. Such a great way to look at things. Easier said than done, I will be the first to admit.
3.) TREEHOUSE!
Monday, July 25, 2011
Sprinkles
Have a Pampered Chef Spritz cookie gun that you only bring out at Christmas to make cute little Spritz cookies but takes up precious room in your kitchen the other 360 days of the year? Well. Is it your lucky Monday or what?
Y'all know those cookies. So good. but the Christmas wreaths and snowflake cookies are always waaaay too small, and kinda hard? My precious auntie makes her Spritz cookies a little bit bigger, sandwiches some frosting between them and adds sprinkles. Delicious. Cute. and not Christmasy :) The picture doesn't do them justice. Put that Spritz cookie gun to use this summer!!!!!
I also just realized that after my little spiel about starting WeightWatchers my first post is about cookies and frosting? Yeah. I am one of those people. When I am trying to eat healthy I bake up a storm and try to shove it down other people's throats. I say it is a workout for my will-power :) My dad thinks it is just plain weird and mean. :)
Sunday, July 24, 2011
Olympic Rings
3.) On the way up, they had these signs giving directions. In English and then in some other language. We all had absolutely NO idea what language it is, how you pronounce it or who could read it? Like seriously? Any ideas? skkcmksdfkjkldjakljdflaskdf?
Thursday, July 21, 2011
SERIOUSLY? Thursday
- Seriously. OKAY. I love the Kardashian's just as much as the next girl. Wish I could be in their family. Klindsay? Sounds good to me. That being saiiiid, the 20.5 carot engagement diamond ring Kim got from Kris. IN THE INSIDE IT SAYS "K HEARTS K". So you spend money on HUGE rock and then can't get more creative than "K HEARTS K"??? Seriously?
- Seriously. The homeless man that is always on the corner when I get off the freeway to go to work now pan-handles with like 6 KITTENS! He sits with his sign, and has a cardboard box full of kittens. Cute. Buuuut. Right when it begins to pull of my heart strings and I am tempted to pull over and give him some money for cat food, I get mad. You can't just use cute little kitties to get money! Seriously?
- Seriously. I ALMOST ate a whole can of Pringles in one sitting the other day. I felt so bllaaahh with that I tortured myself with like an hour run the next morning at 7:30AM. A WHOLE can of Pringles. Seriously?
- Seriously. Did you know that people who regularly floss live an average of SIX YEARS longer than those who don't. Seriously?
Link up and play along! What made you go "Seriously" this week????
Wednesday, July 20, 2011
Tuesday, July 19, 2011
Three Things Tuesday
Monday, July 18, 2011
The Good, The Bad
So BEFORE we went out to dinner, I had stopped over at my aunt's house and my little cousins had BEGGED to play with my camera. I let them take it outside while I chit-chatted. When it was time to go, I gave them hugs and grabbed the camera. I asked where they went to take pictures and they replied, "No where! Just around here." Booooring, I thought. I was probably just gonna delete them from the camera so I wouldn't have to deal with stupid pictures of the grass and their feet taking up room on the computer.
But of course... While I was uploading the pics from our depressing little journey to the boardwalk, I realized I had not yet deleted little J's pictures, and they were going on my computer. I took a quick glance and was surprised. (Our little photographer is only 6!!!!)
Just in the perimeters of her little backyard, she had managed to capture more beauty and color and cheerfulness than I had at the boardwalk. Sometimes it's the simple things that are so beautiful, and that we just take for granted. Like a freakin' shadow? That's the cutest little picture ever, and yet we overlook the simplicities where a 6-year-old mind finds beauty.
Just ANOTHER reminder how there is indeed good in every day (a great TV show, a LONNGGG movie, a pretty pink flower, a baby girl's shadow) amongst the not-so-great. (the end of a great TV series, the end of a great movie series, a rainy JULY day, 2 bodiless figures..?)
Sunday, July 17, 2011
Sorry, Mama :)
It had been years at least.
Someone is turning 50 today...
I didn't want to be mean and do the whole black balloons, "Over the Hill" thing, but I did want to do something that at least acknowledged hitting this big milestone.
I decided to make cookies with BLACK M &M's :) hehehe. Am I clever, or what?
The first batch? I sent the timer for 9 hours instead of 9 minutes.
They were BURNT to say the least. (This picture makes them look somewhat edible. They were not. Let me tell ya that)
Saturday, July 16, 2011
Mr. Relay
A very cheerful contestant from this year and me. Sophomore year of high school at Homecoming. (WITH A DATE WHO COULD DRIVE BY THE WAY.Yep,going for the older boys.) SAME DRESS.
Who wore it best? WHY, OH WHY DID YOU GUYS LET ME GO OUT WITH MY HAIR LITERALLY IN A BEE HIVE? Ugh. He wins. Just based on hair. And that chest that definitely fills out with dress ;)
Friday, July 15, 2011
Please Forgive Me, Debbie
Thursday, July 14, 2011
Happpppy
(No, her name is not Annie, but when I was little, I pronounced AunTie like AnNie and it stuck. So now that's what we all call her. :)
One of the best things this pretty little lady has taught me? Life is HARD, but we just gotta keep on, keepin' on.
Like she always says, "Yeah, the grass may be greener on the other side, but you still have to mow it."
Love it. Love her. Loving that it's almost Friday. Your weekend homework? Be grateful for what you have this weekend :) I am grateful for you, Annie :)
Tuesday, July 12, 2011
Saturday Night
While I know horrific, terrible things are happening all the time, it seems like lately there have been soooo many horrible, unfair, awful things in the news and newspaper and it is just making my heart hurt.
When it rains it pours? I dunno, but it sure seems like that.
On Saturday night my sister's boyfriend and his family were in Lake Chelan (where my boyfriend is from) and T and his little brother were doing some late night fishing.
They heard yelling nearby, and quickly found out that a 27-year old had gone for a late night swim, and hadn't come up. His friends were yelling for help.
T and his bro (fully clothed in sweatshirts and shoes and everything) quickly ditched their shoes and jumped in.
T dove 15 feet down and saw a white light type thing, that he thought could have been a reflection. He went down again, bringing up this guy. He was white, eyes rolled back and had no pulse.
T's brother who had just learned CPR in his health class, started doing compressions and breathing until the paramedics came. While the CPR was being done, they were praying for the man to start breathing again. He was helicoptered to a hospital where he was in a coma.
Just today I saw on T's facebook that the man is recovering and will soon be removed from the machine that is helping him breath!!!!!! HOW AWESOME IS THAT???????????
I mean, I like to think that T's reaction to just dive right in would be mine too, but I really don't know what I would do in that type of situation. I am so proud of those boys and their automatic reaction without even questioning if they would be "heroes".
So while I STILL feel like crying at all the pain and suffering in the world, I also know how GREAT our God is and he is just so much bigger than all my tears and sadness. :)
Monday, July 11, 2011
10,000 hours
Everyone meet Laura Van Dernoot Lipsky. She is amazing.
She talked about finding contentment in life and how to be happy even when we see such horrible, traumatic things in our lives. But it wasn't like the "la di di, be happy" typical speech. She was real. Understanding. Knows what's like.
One of my favorite things she talked about?
10,000 Hours to Expertise
umm what?
There is a theory that suggests that after 10,000 hours of practice in anything, one is considered an "expert" in that topic.
Play your piano for 10,000 hours? Move over, Ray Charles.
Spend 10,000 hours working on perfecting your buttercream frosting recipe? Join a gym, and move over Martha Stewart.
I bet you get the point. :) So. Laura was talking about how when we gossip and do things we KNOW we shouldn't be doing, all that time is adding up towards our 10,000 hours.
For some reason this really hit me. Do I really want to be an expert in face-book stalking? Or gossip-magazine reading? Or for that matter, WORRYING?
An hour here, an hour there, a couple more minutes on the Internet may not seem like a biggie. But over the course of a week, a month, a year? How close to being an expert are you?
...Cuz I think Mark Zuckerburg is getting a litttttle nervous about my facebooking skills. ;)
Sunday, July 10, 2011
Saturday, July 9, 2011
The Time They Thought I had A.D.D.
I moved back and started going to WWU, and I called up the good ole doc, and got a referral to see a psychiatrist to see just what was going on in my poor little brain.
Now, I am not a pet person especially, but I mean, dogs are cute and fine.
BUT. maybe if you are working with people who obviously have a lot of angst and anxiety in their lives, you could not assume they are all dog people, too.
Perhaps I should have asked the receptionist if the psychiatrist I was visiting would bring a dog into her practice? Was it my bad? Do most people ask this? Hm. I had no idea. :)
So I go to the appointment and am greeted by her dog. In the office building. Whatev. I can handle it :) I pet it, say the obligatory "oohh, what a good puppy you have." Blah, blah, blah.
The appointment goes on, we do whatever a doctor does during the initial appointment and we come to the conclusion I might have ADD.
Me? I was speechless. I was honor roll all high school, got a scholarship, LOVED school, took AP classes... pretty much a nerd when it came to school. I got a 4.0 freshman year of college and I was ADD? Umm... okay?
After more eduction, I learned that my problem with attention could be responsible for why I always felt anxious. Interesting? I think so. Me? A college girl who almost joined a sorority and had a boyfriend and got a 4.0 was ADD?
Got my prescription for adderall, did my followup appointments and went on my merry little way.
I think the only thing my adderall did for me was that I could AMAZE my college roommates by being able to sit in the middle of the living room with like 7 other people all talking and laughing and watching TV and listening to music and COMPLETELY zone it all out and type away furiously on my laptop doing homework. Like seriously, it was amazing. :)
So I kept taking the meds and had to tell cute older college boys that 'no' they could not buy some of my adderall off me when finals came around.
The only problem with this appetite suppressing, focus-enhancing pills? I WAS STILL SOO ANXIOUS.
Come to find out, I got a new doctor who told me that for people who in fact ARE NOT A.D.D., these meds MAKE THE PROBLEM WORSE!
So this whole time? This adderall was making me MORE and MORE anxious.
Did I talk to my old psychiatrist about this? Nope. Couldn't. Found out she closed her practice and got her license revoked because she was drinking on the job. Reassuring? Not so much.
Moral of the story? Unless you are an animal lover and perhaps request a doctor who brings pets to your appointments, if you see a dog in the 10 foot by 10 foot office on your first day, make up an excuse and get outta there :)
Friday, July 8, 2011
Thursday, July 7, 2011
I Love Magnets
Tried it out for a couple days, and realized it was actually pretty darn handy :) I was thinking about how nice it would be if I didn't have to open my dresser drawer for ANYTHING in the morning.
Wednesday, July 6, 2011
Tuesday, July 5, 2011
Three Things Tuesday
2.) SNAKE FIRECRACKERS
3.) SOMEONE'S ENGAGED!
Look at that surprised face and the BEAUTIFULLLLL ring ;) One of my besties is getting married!!!! Woohooo for Jen and Travis! :)
Monday, July 4, 2011
Saturday, July 2, 2011
Manual Labor
M & M's
I also love baking. Especially cookies.
Sooo. One of my fav things to do is bake M & M cookies with holiday themes. You know how the stores sell the packs? Red and green for Christmas. Pinks and Whites for Valentines Day, yadda, yadda.
I even branch out sometimes and get a little creative if I do say so myself.
Pick out the red's and blue's... Wait... There is no white M & M's. Add white chocolate chips!
This time I went with the basic assorted Holiday pack.
I've made some for football season where I pick out all the blues and greens for Seahawk colors, red and yellows for the San Fran 49er's. You get the picture. While they are fun and cute, it is not fun to pick through the colors. Plus you need like 5 bags to get enough of the colors you need.
Where am I going with this? My lovely sister had the GENIUS idea of seeing if the Sweet Factory (a specialty candy store in malls around the Pacific Northwest) sold the customizable M & M colors. While they didn't have the ones where you could write messages or print pictures, they had WAYYY more colors of M & M's and they were organized by color!
We bought purple and yellow and she baked up some cute cookies to celebrate Tyson's graduation from UW and his younger brother's acceptance for fall!